Privacy Questions

Please report all phishing emails by clicking the report phishing feature within your email client and/or email website (most email websites and clients have this feature). If you know which member may have sent this to you, please contact Customer Support with any details you have so we can take action.

You can hide your profile by going to the Settings section of your account and clicking the “Hidden” button next to the “Search and Dashboard” option. Turning this setting to “Hidden” will only hide your profile from search and other member’s dashboards. Members you message and favorite can still view your profile.

Premium Members have more options of what they can hide, such as:

  • Join Date
  • Recent Login Location
  • Online Status / Last Active Date
  • When You View Someone
  • When You Favorite Someone

After upgrading your membership to Premium, you may go to the Settings section to access these features.

No. Once you have blocked another member, they will no longer be able to message you, view your profile, or see your profile in his/her search results.

Privacy Information

  • When meeting someone for the first time, meet them for lunch or coffee during the day.
  • Always let your family or friends know before you meet someone the first time. Let them know where, when, and who you will be meeting.
  • Don’t accept personal checks or MoneyGram as a form of allowance. Members may cancel these payments without notice.
  • Don’t disclose your personal banking information, including account numbers or passwords.
  • Report members who request sexual offers in exchange for money.
  • Report members who identify themselves as escorts or prostitutes since this is strictly against our terms of use.
  • Report any member guilty of online harassment.
  • Report anyone who asks for money upfront and before meeting in person. This includes, but is not limited to sob stories asking for money, and individuals needing to pay their cell phone bills.
  • Report members who ask for your address so they can send you gifts.
  • Report members who ask for your bank account details, including account numbers or passwords.
  • Never place your personal contact information on your profile such as your full name, phone number, email address, or address.
  • Use a temporary Hushed disposable phone number or a Google Voice number for added privacy, only give your main number to people you trust.
  • Don’t place links to other social networks or websites on your AllowanceOnly profile, or in your messages to people you just met.
  • Don’t use photos you have posted on other social media sites (Facebook, Instagram, etc.) on your AllowanceOnly profile.
  • Do not use the same username on all social networks as it allows unwanted users to find you easily.
  • Avoid hacking by using complex passwords on your AllowanceOnly account.
  • Check to make sure your primary email account is secure. Anyone with access to your email can retrieve your AllowanceOnly password.
  • Never share your account login and password with anyone.

Protecting yourself from criminals:

  • AllowanceOnly does not perform background checks on every member, so please proceed with caution.
  • Do your own research, and always find out more about someone before you decide to meet them.
  • Don’t discuss sex in your AllowanceOnly profile description or messages you send to members.

WARNING ABOUT MINORS: is for users who are 18 years of age or older.

Having an arrangement with a minor is considered illegal. If you suspect a member to be underage, please ask for a photo ID, or report such members to Customer Support, and we will verify their age for you.


Sex opportunists are Sugar Daddies or Sugar Mommas who promise to give you the world, but their only goal is to have sex with you, and not to form a solid arrangement. Here are some tips to avoid being taken advantage of by a sex opportunist:

  • Don’t trust anyone until they have earned your trust, especially when they promise a large allowance.
  • Don’t have sex on the first date, get to know the person first.
  • Don’t fall for a “test-drive”. You are not a car, and they are not shopping for one. If someone ask for a test drive, they just want sex with you once, and never see you again.


Financial opportunists are attractive women or men who are only after your money. Their goal is to scam you, and they have no intention of ever having a relationship with you. Here are some tips to avoid being taken advantage of by a financial opportunist:

  • Never ever send money to anyone you have not met in person, regardless of the reason, and there will be many.
  • If someone says she is currently in Nigeria, Ghana or Philippines and asks for money, proceed with caution. Verify all information with extreme scrutiny.

Here are some common tricks used by financial opportunists. She/He asks for money for various reasons, and if you send the money you will never hear from her again:

  • I need money to prove you are a real Sugar Daddy/Momma and are ready to spoil me.
  • I need money for a spa day to look gorgeous when I meet you.
  • I need money for travel expenses.
  • I need money for an emergency surgery for myself or a family member etc.
  • I need money because my phone is broken/stolen, or I don’t have minutes, but I really want to call you.


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Disclaimer: An arrangement is not an escort service. AllowanceOnly in no way, shape or form supports escorts or prostitutes using our website for personal gain. Profiles suspect of this usage will be addressed by the AllowanceOnly Misconduct Team and banned from our website.